When Healing Feels Lonely: What I Now Know About Peace
“Avoiding your triggers isn’t healing. Healing happens when you’re triggered and you’re able to move through the pain, the pattern, and the story, and walk your way to a different ending.” ~Vienna Pharaon I thought I had figured it out. For a year, I had been doing the “inner work”—meditating daily, practicing breathwork, journaling, doing […]
How Moments in Nature Help Kids Thrive
Awe doesn’t often make the headlines. But on April 9, 2024, the front page of the New York Times read, “A Divided America Agrees on One Thing: The Eclipse Was Awesome.” All photos by Deborah Farmer Kris of her children in nature Though our town was about three hours south of the path of totality, […]
Dancing with Darkness: How to Reclaim Your Whole Self
“Shadow work is the way to illumination. When we become aware of all that is buried within us, that which is lurking beneath the surface no longer has power over us.” ~Aletheia Luna For years, I believed healing was about transcending pain. I took the courses, read the books, learned every energy-healing technique I could […]
Trusting the Pause: When Patience Is Better Than Pushing
“The most powerful thing you can do right now is be patient while things are unfolding for you.” ~Idil Ahmed⠀ I still remember my last year of college vividly. I was frustrated and disheartened after my application to study abroad was rejected. I had been obsessed with exploring the world through academia, convinced that further study […]
How Bringing an Indigenous Creation Story to Life Can…
He instructed Ani to pisi to wrap the world, with the people in it, in his web and let them down to the lower world. Ani to pisi did as he was told and let them down from the upper world through a hole. After the people were lowered from the upper world (spoomootsi) to […]
Mindfully Connecting With Nature | Psychology Today
Written By Lizabeth Roemer, Ph.D., and Josh Bartok, M.S. “Whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination” ― Mary Oliver As spring comes to the Northern Hemisphere of our blue-green marble, I feel like the budding flowers and leaves are nature waking up my heart and mind and demanding […]
The Mean Instinct: Why We Exclude Others and How to Stop
“In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” ~Unknown “Girls are mean!” I nodded knowingly as my boss struggled to explain the difference between raising boys and girls. I couldn’t speak to raising boys, but I remembered all too well what it was like when my daughters were growing up. Girls traveled in […]
Why Is Social Connection So Hard for Young Adults?
Social connectedness is vital to well-being, but members of Gen Z are hesitant about interacting with one another in today’s online and polarized world, says Stanford psychologist Jamil Zaki. That disconnection comes at a cost: Young adults increasingly report lower levels of happiness than middle-aged and older adults. Here, Zaki talks about why that is […]
Psychoeducation and Somatic Interventions for Sexual Trauma
Defining the Terms of Sexual Assault The first step in helping patients who are survivors of sexual trauma is allowing them to choose the words they may want to use to describe their experience. Many survivors come to sex therapy for sexual disorders like Genito-Pelvic Penetrative-Pain Disorder, Anorgasmia, or lack of desire. They may come […]
Netflix/Adolescence and Gottman Emotion Coaching
The Netflix miniseries Adolescence has ignited critical conversations about the challenges teenagers face today, particularly concerning the influence of social media, online radicalization, and the emergence of toxic subcultures. The series follows the harrowing journey of a 13-year-old boy accused of murdering a classmate, delving into themes of bullying, masculinity, and the impact of online […]